Entries from February 2006

A Headboard For The Ages…Or Until I Can Afford The Bed I Really Want

February 27, 2006 · 9 Comments

This weekend, I undertook a project that I have been talking about for months now. I made a headboard. For real! From scratch! It’s a padded headboard, covered in chocolate velvet which exactly matches my curtains…But rather that just talk about it, how about I show you?

Like the buttons?? There’s a secret there…They are actually doorknobs!! (And there are two rows of them.)

And the kitties did some modeling…

This morning, the kitties were understandably exhausted from all their hard work building the headboard and then modeling for this blog…

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Sales, Schmales….

February 24, 2006 · 1 Comment

I made my first big sale today! Officially! We got the P.O. a few minutes ago! Go me! It’s a moderate sized sale for us, but it’s the largest sale I’ve ever had, and it’s all for one piece, versus our usual orders which are for assortments of several dozen pieces in small quantities each. I just sold 7,500 plaques! lol…Now if I can just convince them to buy 10 more styles, the account will be quite substancial.

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For Sack…

February 23, 2006 · 3 Comments

This is from my John Stewart’s America (The Calendar) daily calendar based on John Stewart’s book, America. Click on the image to enlarge it for reading purposes…

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Some REAL Information on a Potential Iraqi Civil War

February 23, 2006 · 1 Comment

My cousin Rob, an alum of Dartmouth, the University of Chicago, and currently at Princeton for his Ph.D. in Arab Studies responded to my last post with some very good information that I thought you all might like to read. He speaks both Arabic and Hebrew in addition to English, and he is a regular visitor to the websites that will get you a lovely FBI file and red flagged at the airport–as his dissertation requires that he read those sites for primary sources. He also happens to be a terrific writer, and one of these days, I will convince him to start a blog…

This is a long post, but bear with it. Rob is a very informative guy and it’s really quite interesting…

Here is what he had to say about the potential for civil war in Iraq:

A little background on the news from Iraq:

1: the Shia.

The most prestigious person in the Shia community today is Ayatollah Ali Sistani. He is the highest ranking cleric and has been a major moderating force. He even forced the Americans to make the legislative council responsible for writing the constitution to be elected, rather than appointed. He also mediated an end to the anti-US Shia uprising early after the invasion. He opposes an Islamic government.

The other major Shi’ite is Muqtada al-Sadr. He has been portrayed as more radical because he lead those early revolts, he has kept a militia (the Mahdi army) and wants some form of Islamic government. On the other hand, he has reached out to the major sunni leaders in order to create a united Iraqi front. He is outranked by Sistani (the Shia have a clerical heirarchy) and thus will defer to him sometimes, but the two have their differences and Sadr may not be so easily convinced to stop retaliating this time (if he even has the power to do so, the mob may be tough to control). He is very popular due to the fact that his family stayed in Iraq under Saddam Husayn, and many prominent members of his family were killed (martyred) by Husayn.

2: The Sunnis.
There are several points of view among the sunni community.

a)Most leaders have urged peaceful cooperation with the Shia as the best way to ensure their rights. They want to make alliances with Shia factions in order to protect themselves in parlaiment. This is not to say that relations are always smooth, but they are slowly coming to grips with the fact that they must adapt to the political reality (a shia plurality) to survive.

b)the Islamist insurgents. They are split on how to deal with the shia. Some say,(paraphrased) “lets unite with the shi’a in jihad vs. the Americans”, (the NYTimes Magazine for Feb. 19 mentions some who think that).

The more radical (Abu Musab al-Zarqawi and his group) disagree. To them, the Shi’a are a bastardizing of Islam to such an extent that they are virtually unbelievers. Especially they hate the Shia practice of venerating the 12 Imams (certain descendant of the Prophet Muhammad treated sort of like saints). They think its idolatry. The mosque they blew up yesterday was a shrine to one of the Imams. An alliance with them would be un-Islamic.

The Zarqawi-ites have three goals. First, they want to prevent Shia domination. Second, they want to make life in Iraq even more difficult for the US. Third, they hope that prolonged anger towards the US presence in Iraq (and the retaliation of the Shia) will gain them more recruits within Iraq and outside.

we’d all better hope this cycle of retaliations ends soon, because it could spiral out of control very easily. The longer it goes on the tougher it will be for sunni and Shia leaders to stop it. If it does explode, it will be a huge propoganda victory for Zarqawi and the radical insurgents. The Shi’ites have been attacked several times before, and usually they have remained calm and worked through the politcal process, knowing that they had numbers on their side in an election. They may have been hit one too many times now, and in too sacred a spot.

I hope this helps. It is difficult to sort through the crap on the news.

Update: Rob added this:

Forgot to add. On “What side do we choose”. There is not much we can do. My hunch is we will try to go after the radical insurgents (again). At the same time we will behind the scenes try to get Sistani to convince Sadr to keep the shia from retaliating. If he doesnt listen, we may have to go after some of the Mahdi army as well (again). we will try to be “fair” but no one in Iraq will see it that way.

In any case, it is a no-win situation for the US if this goes on much longer. the shia will say, “since the US is still here, this has happened to us”. And the Sunnis will say, “see, the US wants the Shia to win, thats why they want democracy, they are against Islam”. Even those who were happy in Iraq to see Saddam Husayn go will admit that 3 years later, the US cannot provide them with the security they need to survive.

And dont forget the Kurds. They would love to be more autonomous, maybe even independant, and a civil war between the sunni and Shia arabs might be just the excuse they want. This would cause much instability in the region, especially to our ally Turkey, which has a big Kurdish population that has been oppressed for the past century.

What’s even more troubling is the “democracy” initiative inthe Mid East. Every country there is an ethnic and religious mosaic, like Iraq. The places that have tried democracy have not been pillars of success: Lebanon(civil war from 1975-90), Iran (nukes), Palestine (corrupt PLO, now Hamas), Algeria (civil war since 1990), Turkey is ok, but it had 3 military coups between 1960-80 (and is very oppressive towards its kurds), and now Iraq (potential civil war). If Iraq fails to be a democracy, it will set back the cause of democracy in the Mid East for decades (remember how Bush promised us that a free Iraq help democracy in the ME?).

Then again, maybe Bush hopes the rapture wll come and he wont have to deal with all of this…

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War On Top of War?

February 23, 2006 · 5 Comments

To my very smart readers…

What do you think of this potential civil war in Iraq? When I heard about it, all I could do was close my eyes and shake my head.

And equally importantly, why, when I tried to find out more information about it last night at 9pm, did none of the news channels have anything running about it? I am sure some of those shows are pre-recorded, but I thought at least Anderson Cooper was live…no? Or at least, as this blurb about the show says, he is “covering not only the day’s top stories, but the fascinating, the unexpected and the underreported.” Civil War in Iraq fits that, I think.

To pose another query, where does a civil war in Iraq leave us? Are we going to allow our troops to be involved in their civil war?? How would you pick a side, when we have been talking about “freeing” ALL of Iraq for 3 years?

What a mess.

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An Unwritten Book

February 22, 2006 · 2 Comments

I am fairly infatuated at the moment with a new artist, Natasha Bedingfield. Her brother is Daniel Bedingfield whose song, “Gotta Get Through This” was a huge hit a few years ago. One of her songs, “Unwritten” has struck a cord with me. It is one line, in fact, that makes me want to listen to it over and over again:

“Today is where your book begins/The rest is still unwritten.”

Today can always be the beginning, can’t it? I love that.

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CA-RAY-ZY!!

February 21, 2006 · Leave a Comment

One of my customers drives me AB-SO-LUTELY MAD! He stopped ordering for a month or two in December and January, and we were all secretly glad. He’s back, and full of ridiculous requests. AHHH! I think I spend half my time with him RE-explaining how we are not capable of doing the things he wants. SIGHHH…

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Frienships are like ice, they may thaw but the water that creates them can always be refrozen

February 20, 2006 · 1 Comment

Uh…It was icy here yesterday?? Really? I had no idea. Honestly. I didn’t leave the house. In fact, don’t tell anyone, but I never even really got dressed. I didn’t even manage to put a bra on. I took a muscle relaxer around 11 am and lazied my way around the house all day clad in blue pajama pants, a Longhorn sweatshirt and warm, fuzzy socks.

I managed to wash a comforter, and a load of laundry, and pick up a tiny bit from my friends coming over Saturday night, but that’s it. All day.

I did finish the book I was reading. The Kite Runner. Wow! Terrific book, and I absolutely recommend it. My best friend from childhood sent it to me as part of my Christmas present with a little yellow post-it note saying it was her favorite book of the year. She was right. At least to February 20th it is definitely my favorite book of 2006…It’s about a boy who grows up in Afghanistan in the 70’s, and how his life was so dramatically altered by the Russian war and then the Taliban. Although, by the time the Taliban came in, he and his father were in the states. It is also, and more importantly, about the friendship of a lifetime, and what it truly means to be a friend. The sacrifice and love that true friends show each other, and how hard it can be to be that kind of friend.

The importance of my friend sending this book to me didn’t hit me until I had finished it. The friendship in this book is one separated by lifestyles, cultures and distance. In many ways just like my friendship with her. We have known each other for 21 year now, and while we have always been friends, there was a period where our friendship was tested by the distance that has surrounded it since I moved away in the second grade. I always realized exactly how important her friendship was to me, but there was a period in college where I think it had faded for her. When we were reunited before she joined the peace corp, she told me one day that she didn’t realize how much she had missed me. And then at her bachelorette party, she again reiterated those sentiments, as our friendship was rekindled by a long weekend of restorative hanging out. But our friendship is not based upon the same things as so many of my friendships. It is based on the knowledge of a person as a child. The memories of learning to write together, of shooing away her younger brother, who in many ways feels like my younger brother, of slumber parties, and basement games of Nintendo’s Paperboy, and the distance that made our time together so much more important. The feeling of seeing the six year old you once knew in the woman sitting across the table from you. How our personalities are really just the same 21 years later. There is a kinship between us that no one else shares, and for that, I am blessed. For that, I know I will know her for the rest of my life, through everything life can throw at me, and at her.

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Ahhhh…

February 17, 2006 · Leave a Comment

Only took half of a muscle relaxer…Skelaxin…which is supposed to be the least drowsy form…hmmm…my eyes feel like lead weights…but my back feels grrreeeaatt…

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Yay!

February 17, 2006 · Leave a Comment

Congrats to Jenny for completing her first day at her new job! (Finally!!) :~)

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